.If you say that you love a person then you must be willing to give them a research chance. That is, allocate a lot of time and attention to the pursuit of the knowledge of them. How they live? what do they want from living? that is most important to them? what is life to them? how do they intend to go about living life? what boxes from the other lives that they have lived did they carry with them into your own existence? what still lingers inside them?
You must learn the deep secrets that are usually too embarrassing or intense to talk about in public. It is not as easy as it sounds. Some things may be hard to understand or come to terms with. However, that is where our perseverance comes in, our long-suffering.
After enlightenment and deep understanding, everywhere you go you will include this love in your conversations. You will want to preach to people about this love when you sleep. Moreover, you are awoken abruptly to be asked questions about your love you will be able to have answers. Until you reach a point of oneness with this human study like training up a child in the way that he should grow. Though the child is not with you this love will reside deep inside and will never depart. In addition, you will grow and mature in mind, body, and spirit.
This love is a craft. Same as learning how to make music or painting on a canvas, sculpting, art, anything that requires we spend a lot of time with it. Something that requires our sensitivity and pride, care or our life.